Today has been a great day! I was able to talk to my brother who is serving an LDS mission in New York thru IM!! I miss him so much and I hate not being able to talk to him like I use too, but I know he is where he is suppose to be right now. I also got to talking to one of my girls from high school! The conversation of love and being friends with guys came up! (Of course it did ha ha what else do you think we talk about ha ha!)
As we were finishing up our conversation, it got me thinking about my past experiences and friendships with certain guys in my life! Looking back, things never came together easily in a good way! The drama def came easily ha ha Go figure! I am not saying that relationships of any kind should be easy cause they aren't! You have to work at it everyday, but in the beginning, that is the suppose to be the easy part! When you see him/her for the first time, you know something is different about them! You can't quite put your finger on it. Then the way you guys connect and get along will be so natural, you will feel like you have known each other forever! You can make each other laugh and feel better when each other has had a stressful or bad day/week! You will get each other! Its easy to be around each other and there is an awesome attraction and chemistry! At least thats how I imagine it happening ha ha! I wanna fall in love with my best friend, because as great as the chemistry and physical attraction are, you have to want to hang out with them after all that! Ha ha! You'd think that that would be common sense right!? I know that good looks can def cloud the mind, but your girl is holding out for her best friend and I encourage you to do the same! It will make your relationship that much better! Just think, you have someone to have all that "fun" with, that physical attraction, but you also have someone who you want to spend time with and you have fun together and vice versa! You have someone who has your back and supports you in what you do! Someone who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person and vice versa! Someone who reminds you that you are an amazing person and have so much to offer the world!! Something that I want, and it may sound crazy, is someone who isn't afraid to fight with me! Ha ha both people need to fight fair, but arguments are healthy for the relationship, in more ways then one if you feel me! Ha ha!
Life is too short to put up with people who don't deserve you or what you have to offer! Raise the bar but don't be insane with your standards and watch who will come out of the woodwork! It could be the guy/girl that lives down the hall, the guy/girl that you run into from time to time, or it could be someone who is already in your life and the time is just not right yet! Don't force it! Enjoy life and what you have and everything will happen in a natural way! It will come together so smoothly it might be scary ha ha but embrace it and enjoy it!
Lots of love! Lots of prays! And def a lil bit of raising hell! (Gotta have balance right ha ha!)
Dedicated Diva
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