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So I know I have already written for tonight, but I felt very impressed to share this! We live in a world of scary times, hard times, and sometimes it feels like we will never see the light at the end of the tunnel! But, one of the things that we forget is how truly blessed we are, especially us Americans! Even the poorest man, woman and child have it so much better then a lot of the other parts of the world! So, try something! Just for the next week and tell me if this doesn't absolutely change your life! Even in the hardest and darkest of times, I want you to find the positive in the situation! Find it and dwell on that! You will be amazed at what will happen when you focus more on the positive then the negative!

I am also impressed to share something with my girls! Fellas, you are more then happy to continue reading, but I will be directing this towards my girls!

Ladies! I have watched so many beautiful, talented, amazing girls settle for less then they deserve! I am not pointing the finger either, because I have been that girl more then once! Whether you are "addicted" to the bad boy or just feel like you don't deserve the best, I have been there! Girls, if you only knew the kind of power you have over a man just by being a woman! It is insane!! It sucks to be alone and everybody wants to be loved, but just think of the amazing guys you are missing out on because you are stickin with these losers! Plus, guys are gonna treat you how you let them treat you! You have to raise the bar! Once you do that and stick to your guns, the boys will start to disappear and the men will start steppin up their game! Because real men want a high class girl! (Ha ha not high maintenance, but high class!)

I definitely went through my "I Hate Men Phase!" a couple different times ha ha! I thought all men were the same and that they were all dogs! None of them deserved such a gift like me and I was ready to live my life single and die that way! I had it all planned out! I was gonna have a couple dogs and adopt! Tiffany Larson did not need a man! But, as time went on, I grew out of that insanely unattractive crazy phase ha ha! I learned that I cannot judge one man by another mans actions! On top of that, I also met a man who would end up changing my life forever! He was very different from all the other guys I would encounter! He was respectful, easy to get along with, a complete gentleman and someone I admired very much! He helped me see that while there are definitely those jerks, (Kanye wrote their national anthem ha ha!) there are also amazing men out there who know how to treat a woman like the Goddess that she is!  We are still friends to this day and I am so grateful to have him be apart of my life and a constant reminder of what I want in my future!!

It may not be what you want to hear, because it sure wasn't what I wanted to hear for sure! But, everything has its own time! You need to be in a place where you are ready for him to be apart of your life and he needs to be in a place where he is ready to have you be apart of his! You can't rush it! Ask yourself this, do I want to try and rush love to fill my satisfaction now, or do I want to let it take its course and have it be a lasting relationship! Num 2!? Good choice! Don't wait around for Mr. Right! Go out into the world and do something for you or for others! Get involved! Not only do you grow as a person, but you also are giving yourself the opportunity to meet more people and up your chances of meeting someone that much sooner! And for crying out loud! DO NOT CHASE THEM!!! Make the guys work for it! You are an amazing thing that his rear end is lucky just to be breathing the same air! ha ha! If he is too stupid not to completely put in the time and effort to show you that he wants you, kick his ass to the curb! Sure he may have been gorgeous but gorgeous only gets you so far! And!! If he is one of those guys that gives that lame ass excuse of being afraid of rejection.. NEWS FLASH... WE ALL ARE!! But, make him be the man! He is called a man for a reason, better make him step up and start acting like one! Real men are not afraid to go after what they want! Even if there is a possibility of rejection!! Wait for the guy who knows what an amazing thing he has in front of him! The guy who come hell or high water is not gonna let anything stand in his way of trying to get you! My girls! You deserve the best! That's it, no if's, and's, or but's!

Dedicated Diva